KISSING AND MAKING UP
At some point, you have to give up being mad. You have to come to the point that you realize there is something big missing because you are mad at someone and put that out there for them to see. They need to know WHY you got mad (finally), but they also need to know that you are willing to start to fix what went wrong. Life is too short to be miserable. Or even the least bit unhappy.
Tell someone you have been at odds with you are sorry. It doesn't matter who's right, does it? What matters is that, at one point, you were friends and you miss them and they probably miss you too. Don't make it hard on each other for this reconciliation. Life is hard enough as it is and you don't get out of it alive.
At some point, you have to give up being mad. You have to come to the point that you realize there is something big missing because you are mad at someone and put that out there for them to see. They need to know WHY you got mad (finally), but they also need to know that you are willing to start to fix what went wrong. Life is too short to be miserable. Or even the least bit unhappy.
Tell someone you have been at odds with you are sorry. It doesn't matter who's right, does it? What matters is that, at one point, you were friends and you miss them and they probably miss you too. Don't make it hard on each other for this reconciliation. Life is hard enough as it is and you don't get out of it alive.
posted by Ballz @ 7:18 AM
3 Comments:
At 7:03 PM,
nettiemac said…
You're a good gal, Ballz!!!! :hug: (oops, that doesn't work here, does it?)
CG
At 8:37 AM,
Anonymous said…
That is a good theory but sometimes the cut is too deep. You can forgive but it's too painful to forget.
At 5:18 PM,
Anonymous said…
Ridding yourself of anger - regardless of whether it's righteous or not - is a big gift. To YOU! The physiology and biochemistry of the damage it can do is enough to convince most that it's just not worth holding on to. Have a tantrum. Throw something. Say something awful in the heat of the moment. And then let it go and get on with your life.
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